THE TRANSFEM RALSEI THEORY AND EVERYTHING IVE GATHERED ON IT (WIP)

id like to start this out with a SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT "GNC ERASURE" IF YOU GENUINELY CARED YOU WOULD LOVE BLUE + TRANSGENDER REP IS WAY MORE IMPORTANT THEN GNC REP. SHUT THE FUCK UP. SECOND OF ALL I AM TIRED OF BEING NICE AND KIND I WILL BE BASHING PEOPLE IN THE REPLIES. THIRD OF ALL THE TERM "FEMBOY" IS HEAVILY SEXUALISED, USED IN PORN, AND A CONSIDERED A SLUR IN SOME TRANSFEM SPACES FOR A REASON. SAY FEMININE MEN.

forth of all i love ralsei and i will be using she/her pronouns for ralsei in this entire thread, i want a place to put all my transfem ralsei thoughts, i believe the trans coding for ralsei was being written before chapter 5, and i have watched multiple videos on this. i am a transgender man myself, and while i can talk on the general topic of being transgender i do not know most of the experiences transgender women go through, and if you are a transgender woman yourself or on the transfem spectrum, PLEASE let me know your thoughts.

my sources come from my own thoughts and reading, and this playlist i found on youtube ill link below.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juT5fR24MXI&list=PLDlQ6jz0btSI

Beware, i will be going back and forth on chapters a lot. This is unorganized and badly written, i have ADHD and it makes me go back on my statements while writing.

OK NOW TO THE POINT

In the very beginning of chapter 1, ralsei’s sprite was extremely similar to the riverpersons,with a hooded figure and a shadowed face. seen here


One of the first things the riverperson says is quote “Tra la la. I am the riverman.

Or am I the riverwoman...? It doesn't really matter.” and now, looking at how ralsei’s character is going, i like to believe this is some type of foreshadowing.

Even after ralsei took off the hood, she was wearing her hat which is heavily implied for her to not like wearing, and at the end of the chapter she takes this hat off. This completely changes her form, making her generally present more femininely along with change her face shape.

Despite no longer being in the form of wearing the hat, she is often displayed with the hatted ralsei version in the battle menu icons and in tenna’s minigames, with the only acception being in the party menu, seen here.

Over all, the UI is unchanging in the story, unwilling to acknowledge ralsei no longer wearing her hat. But, in chapter 5, stated by tumblr user vvkingofgaybisciutsvv, the UI acknowledged ralsei’s pronoun change, referring to her with They/Them. This is huge considering how despite ralsei’s icons not changing, as if the game is saying “you cant defy the prophecy, even if you not physically you will always be wearing that hat.”, it started using They/Them when talking about ralsei. One of the most unmoving, unchangeable parts of the game changed to acknowledge that.

Despite all of this, her character is painfully aware of the prophecy and is slightly implied to be scared of it. The prophecy seems to be a constant thought in her head, and it etched into her character, making her believe shes useless and doesnt need to have her own thoughts an opinions, since she believed her only use was being useful to the lighteners, and to kris specifically. In this prophecy, she is referred to as a prince. If she ends up transitioning, she would be directly rejecting the prophecy. This is later reinforced with a lot of dialouge about her wanting and telling kris she could be a princess, seen here.

Despite seemingly disliking the prophecy and going against it, it seems like she seems hopeless to prevent it and shocked if it gets defied. She shows this hopelessness in chapter 3, where she insists on playing tenna’s games as she knows tenna later gets slashed and (if not in a mercy route) dies from the roaring knight. Because of all this, she was seemingly okay with just being a tool and an object for the lighteners. As the chapters progressed, however, its shown she slowly regains her passion of being her own person, shown later in chapter 3 where she insists on her face being her own and not asriels, and her decorating her room in chapter 5. Theres a few more scenes and subtext of her becoming her own person, but overall its a huge part in the game’s story and her own character arc. Because of this, Ralsei being transfem would play hand in hand with her becoming her own character and defying the prophecy.

I have a lot more to write, so i will edit this post later, but it is currently 1:20 AM and id like to get some sleep.

A mtf trans person you may wanna talk to is @Galacta_22 but they’re gone for a hiatus
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That’s it
I don’t really have much else to add

good theory :friend: :+1:

there is a good bit of evidence for this

you really put this together well :)

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yeah of course, i typed that out in a HATE for how transphobic the deltarune community is getting over ralsei's transfem coding, i'm not gonna be rude and stupid if someone has a conflicting theory and proper evidence to support it. infact i think its neccesary to look at conflicting evidence to build a proper theory!!

I don't think Toby's going to confirm if Ralsei's trans or not. It's a little late into the chapters to be mulling over the idea of that kind of thing - even if Ralsei came out next chapter that would mean 5 chapters out of 7 would be using majority male pronouns, making repeated playthroughs a little awkward to sit through (and the game is presumably intended to be played through multiple times)

I am of the personal opinion that Ralsei's got gender euphoria, but I feel like the truth of it may very well remain uncertain forever. I respect the opinion, though. I would personally not be surprised if Ralsei was trans

i think its going to be the same as the situation with mettaton, and how he doesnt outright say "i am a transgender man" but in subtext he has a beautiful, and very well written story of the transgender experience. toby's trans characters almost never are in your face with their transgenderness, yet its still a huge part of their respective characters. i agree that its not going to be outright confirmed, but i dont think it would be like toby for him to not keep going with the arc. definitely think itll be the same ammount of subtext as mettaton around the end of the game, if not completely confirmed. i think id cry if it was completely confirmed that would be awesome

wait a fuck sec mettaton is trans

how did i not know this

RC: I mean it is subtext but yeah the journals you can find in his house imply that

WHAT THE FUCK YOU CAN GO IN HIS HOUSE (he has one?!?!?!)

i think i heard of a mettaton key and i got it once but i didnt know where to use it

imma look that up

RC: its next to nabstablook's house, it is the pink one

OUGH I LOVE METTATON I CANT BELIEVE I GET THE CHANCE TO TALK ABOUT THIS

basically, mettaton used to be a ghost and implied to be a sad one at that, and all the ghosts in undertale use they/them pronouns, yet when another character, mad mew mew, finds a new vessel in their respective doll, she starts going by she/her. same with mettaton going by he/him!! in the journals mentioned before, one of the last entries below is written
Dear Diary: She surpised me with something today.

  1. Sketches of a body that she wants to create for me...
  2. A form beyond my wildest fantasies.
  3. In a form like that, I could finally feel like... "myself."
  4. After all, there's no way I can be a star the way I am now.
  5. Sorry, Blooky. My dreams can't wait for anyone...
    quote "i could finally feel like myself" is VERY obvious transgender writing, making mettaton widely accepted as canonically transgender. i LOVE mettaton so much hes my favorite undertale character THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME TALK ABOUT IT

np man

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yea

Warning

I disagree with this theory so have caution reading this it may be triggering

The beginning of this post really read as “This is my head canon and if you disagree YOU'RE A TRANSPHOBIC BIGOT” which made me not want to even bother to read this, since I don’t Follow this theory. It feels like more of a vent post if anything.

Evidence 1. This seems unrelated, and furthermore the riverperson takes more a gender neutral role in this text, it’s a stretch to call it foreshadowing.

Evidence 2. Saying Ralsei taking off the hat makes him more “feminine” is just another stretch. Does he need to be jacked with a beard to be masculine or simply just non feminine? The whole main three seem to be meant to specifically break gender norms, so he’s a non masculine man. Simply saying that doesn’t make me transphobic or bigoted.

Evidence 3. I heavily disagree with this being "huge". Toby really most likely just didn’t make new icon sprites? Susie still has her hair covering her eyes in tons of sprites, her battle sprites, and her menu sprites. And oh boy another thing with the damn dark vine title, we genuinely still have no idea why this is used, considering even after this Ralsei remains to not be addressed by these pronouns.

Evidence 4. So this really contradicts your opening statement to me because then is he not just transitioning to defy the prophecy rather than wanting to? That would just be bad writing. Neither of these pieces of text strike me as direct character important moment of him wanting to be a princess/ fem.

I think it’s an alright theory to have, and it’s definitely possible, but really it’s just a big stretch, and I’m growing tired of the community being so adamant on pushing headcannons.

Please don’t take this as transphobia or me finding something wrong with your head cannon, but I wanted to throw in my two cents :folded_hands:

I agree with a lot of this. I'm repeating myself from my previous comment but I think he's just got gender euphoria (as someone who has that myself I strongly resonate with Ralsei in a lot of ways, particularly the way he enjoys being cute). I could see it potentially being taken down a route of Ralsei being trans but for now I think it's fine to 'let him figure it out for himself' and roll with the pronouns we've got until or if we're given new ones

After all, his whole character development is centred around figuring things out for himself while others avoid telling him what he can or can't feel or do and supporting him as he endeavours to be 'more Ralsei-like'. Other characters (including Kris) responding negatively if you try to push him away from whatever route of self-discovery he's on. Seems only right to allow him to figure it out and not to push assumptions, although it's fine to speculate

i agree

(note i am not transphobic in the least)

...okay man???